Be Yourself!!!

At times it so happens that someone comes in our life and make us forget the time. At times, some incidents happen in our life which makes us forget everything. And these are the times when we forget ourselves also- who we are? What are values? What are our goals, our priorities and so on?

But we should ourselves for anyone. Everyone is unique; we should learn to accept people as they are. We should not force our thoughts on others and at the same time be aware also that other people do not get too imposing on us.

No doubt we should try to change ourselves given the circumstances; we should learn new things, embrace new ideas and imbue in us good qualities that we perceive in our surroundings.

But then we should not deviate from our core values and priorities of life.

We should be ourselves, so that everyone feels proud of us and they try to emulate us rather than us emulating them.

Hence know yourself, believe in yourself and Be Yourself.

May Be

MAY BE…

Maybe. . we were supposed to meet the wrong people before meeting the right one so that
when we finally meet the right person, we will know how to be grateful for that gift.
Maybe . . . it is true that we don't know what we have until we lose it,
but it is also true that we don't know what we have been missing until it arrives.
Maybe . . . the brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past;after all,
you can't go on successfully in life until you let goof your past mistakes, failures and heartaches.
Maybe . . you should hope for enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make you strong,
enough sorrow to keep you human, and enough hope to make you happy .
Maybe . . . the happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything;
they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.
Maybe . . . the best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch and swing with, never say a word,
and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had.
Maybe . . . happiness waits for all those who cry, all those who hurt, all those who have searched, and all those who have tried,
for only they can appreciate the importance of all the people who have touched their lives.
May be . . you should do something nice for someone every single day,
even if it is simply to leave them alone.
Maybe . . . there are moments in life when you miss someone -- a parent, a spouse, a friend, a child --
so much that you just want to pick them from your dreams and hug them for real,
so that once they are around you appreciate them more.
Maybe … giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they will love you back.
Don't expect love in return; just wait for it to grow in their heart;
but, if it doesn't, be content that it grew in yours.
Maybe . . . you should dream what you want to dream; go where you want To go, be what you want to be, because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you dream of, and want to do.

(this is one of my Favorite poem)

Thats Love

That's Love-
If you love some one because you think that he or she is really gorgeous ....then it's not love .. it's "Infatuation"
If you love some one because you think that you shouldn't leave him because others think that you shouldn't ... then it's not love.. it's "Compromise"
If you love some one because you have been kissed by him ... then it's not love.. it's "Inferiority complex"
If you love some one because you cannot leave him thinking that it would hurt his feelings .. then it's not love .. it's "Charity"
If you love some one because you share every thing with him ... then it's not love... it's "Friendship"BUT...
If you feel the pain of the other person more than him even when he is stable and you cry for him ... that's "LOVE"
If you get attracted to other people but stay with him without any regrets... that's "LOVE"
If you let him go knowing that he has to go but he doesn't want to ... that's "LOVE"

(Of course this poem is not written by me but this is one of favorites)

A Dedication to my Best Friend

This was the peom i wrote in a Creative Writing Competition. however this was written by keeping in mind my best friend..
Hence this poem is dedicated to him..

Those gingerly eyes
Those curly lips
That killer smile
That makes me go on ride

Your firm hold
That makes me bold
Something that need not be told

Your love your care
Something which is rare
Is there for me forever

About his innate behavior-

Somu a bholu,
Not so bholu but a motu..
and I call him a “sweetoo”..

A cutie pie
..a innocent guy..
A dreamer and a worker
A helper and a shelter.
A shelter to me in every new difficulty
A sweetie and a mighty
A donkey and a monkey.
In short my cutie pie, my sweetie pie, my lovely pie
Together we make a wholesome tie.

Nation

This was article written during a competition ehld at my college on creative writing. i do not very well remember the title now.

OHH Lord!!! OHH Mighty King!!! of our nation lets all rise up and the storm broke loose!!!

It is well known that the “Pen is mightier than Sword” but at times Sword has to play its own role and honorable king the time has come that that we take sword into our hands and stop the word game, we have been playing for past few months.

Ohh Lord!!! Today I want to speak the hearts of people of your own land who have been with you every time and have seen all seasons of life. I know right now it is the autumn but then we should not forget that Spring is not too far and we have to fight to make this spring, the most cheerful season for everyone.

We all know the whole truth, we also know that we are armed against weakness and uncertainty but then we don’t forget that the blows of war gives us additional strength, firm resolve, and a spirit to overcome all the difficulties, that the nation is currently in grasp of.

Now is not the time to ask how it all happened. The fruitless debate can be postponed for later discussions. At present it is important to know that our hands are active but our consciousness is at rest. And it is the high time that we wake up ourselves.

We the people of this great nation know that we are brave enough to look danger in the face then act decisively with our heads held high. Everytime we have showed the strength of our words, our character and our sword to our enemies. And this time also the history will repeat itself. So let it be today.

Let me remind that this is not the war just against our enemies but this is the war against all the injustice that the people of this holy land have been facing, all those pinching memories of chilly winter that the people want to forget. This is not the war of establishing dominance but is the war to restore people of the freedom which is exclusively right and to spread ray of hope to them who have not cherished it ever.

My task is to give you an unvarnished picture of the situation, to bring forth the feelings of people and to reiterate again-

Now The citizens of this great Nation, Rise Up and Let the storm broke loose.

Mystery Continues....

Hello everyone,

In my previous blog on friendship I tried wrote on what is Friendship and how many perspectives this word has got.

Here I am writing on FRIEND.

In the previous blog I wrote in last line that a Friend is a person who is there for you every time.
Herein I would share my experience as to what I feel about my close friends. For me a person is your friend with whom you can be your natural self without thinking what your friend will think about you, your actions or your words. If you have to think before acting or saying anything infront of your close friends then they are not your close friends, they are simply your friends. As said in movie Mohabbatein, “koi pyaar kare tumse kare, tum jaise ho waise kare, koi tumhe badalkar pyaar kare to who pyaar nahi, soda kare aur sahiba pyaar mein soda nahi hota”.

Further it is possible that the other person might not be having that a great feeling as you have for him/her. But if the relation is true from your side, then sooner or later this fact will be realized by that person and s/he will also consider as your good friend, My Experience!!!. It is also possible that at time your close friend gets away from you, I know that it is perhaps the hardest moment of one’s life, but cannot do anything because you cannot force friendship on anyone. In this case I would say just relax and have faith on your relationship. If even for a moment you had true relation with the person s/he will realize your value in his/her life and will come to you.
Once a friend of mine said that if I can say to my family and my friends that he is my friend then our relation is true, well it is also one of the dimensions of a true relation.
However there is a thin line of difference between a friend and a lover. You have to be very clear about this because you may never know when your true and close friendship may get converted into love. Hence be very clear with your relation. Also, never hide anything from your close friends, be absolutely truthful. Whatever you feel, whether good or bad simply say to your friend and sort out the issue. It will simply strengthen your bond.
It is said that if you have made atleast 5 true friends in your life then your life is worthwhile, so now count how many friends you have with whom you can be your natural self and also absolutely truthful.

Enjoy, Cherish and have faith on your FRIENDS!!!

NEVER THINK…

After reading my friend’s blog I am tempted to write another blog….. “Never Think”..
Yes we as individual can never control our mind and keep on thinking a lot. Infact, it is rightly said-
“When you are alone control your thoughts and when you are in public control your tongue.”
Whenever something good and exciting happens in our life, good thoughts keeps coming in our mind; whenever something unfavorable happens then the bad thoughts (may be for ourselves or others) keep flocking in our mind. I don’t know how far these thoughts take the concrete shape (thought at times they do). But most of the time they don’t and we simply waste our precious time and at times even our precious relations.
Hence it’s better to prevent our mind from thinking anything bizarre. Instead use the time to think some thing constructive, think about the work pending; about the good things that we can do that will make difference to us and others lives.
If I have to share my personal experience-
My mood changes very frequently. If something good happens, good thoughts come to my mind and if something bad happen in my life all sort of negativity surrounds me. And I have seen the effect of this thinking on my work and everything that happens around me. If I think good then the good happens and vice versa. But, whatever I think hardly takes the shape (except dreams which we definitely want to take the real shape).
Hence it’s better to stop thinking something futile which is not going to make any constructive change to anyone’s life. However it does not mean not to think at all.
Ofcourse both sides of brain should be utilized properly.
Hence keep thinking.. Its good for health only of it is a god thought.