Mystery Continues....

Hello everyone,

In my previous blog on friendship I tried wrote on what is Friendship and how many perspectives this word has got.

Here I am writing on FRIEND.

In the previous blog I wrote in last line that a Friend is a person who is there for you every time.
Herein I would share my experience as to what I feel about my close friends. For me a person is your friend with whom you can be your natural self without thinking what your friend will think about you, your actions or your words. If you have to think before acting or saying anything infront of your close friends then they are not your close friends, they are simply your friends. As said in movie Mohabbatein, “koi pyaar kare tumse kare, tum jaise ho waise kare, koi tumhe badalkar pyaar kare to who pyaar nahi, soda kare aur sahiba pyaar mein soda nahi hota”.

Further it is possible that the other person might not be having that a great feeling as you have for him/her. But if the relation is true from your side, then sooner or later this fact will be realized by that person and s/he will also consider as your good friend, My Experience!!!. It is also possible that at time your close friend gets away from you, I know that it is perhaps the hardest moment of one’s life, but cannot do anything because you cannot force friendship on anyone. In this case I would say just relax and have faith on your relationship. If even for a moment you had true relation with the person s/he will realize your value in his/her life and will come to you.
Once a friend of mine said that if I can say to my family and my friends that he is my friend then our relation is true, well it is also one of the dimensions of a true relation.
However there is a thin line of difference between a friend and a lover. You have to be very clear about this because you may never know when your true and close friendship may get converted into love. Hence be very clear with your relation. Also, never hide anything from your close friends, be absolutely truthful. Whatever you feel, whether good or bad simply say to your friend and sort out the issue. It will simply strengthen your bond.
It is said that if you have made atleast 5 true friends in your life then your life is worthwhile, so now count how many friends you have with whom you can be your natural self and also absolutely truthful.

Enjoy, Cherish and have faith on your FRIENDS!!!