NEVER THINK…

After reading my friend’s blog I am tempted to write another blog….. “Never Think”..
Yes we as individual can never control our mind and keep on thinking a lot. Infact, it is rightly said-
“When you are alone control your thoughts and when you are in public control your tongue.”
Whenever something good and exciting happens in our life, good thoughts keeps coming in our mind; whenever something unfavorable happens then the bad thoughts (may be for ourselves or others) keep flocking in our mind. I don’t know how far these thoughts take the concrete shape (thought at times they do). But most of the time they don’t and we simply waste our precious time and at times even our precious relations.
Hence it’s better to prevent our mind from thinking anything bizarre. Instead use the time to think some thing constructive, think about the work pending; about the good things that we can do that will make difference to us and others lives.
If I have to share my personal experience-
My mood changes very frequently. If something good happens, good thoughts come to my mind and if something bad happen in my life all sort of negativity surrounds me. And I have seen the effect of this thinking on my work and everything that happens around me. If I think good then the good happens and vice versa. But, whatever I think hardly takes the shape (except dreams which we definitely want to take the real shape).
Hence it’s better to stop thinking something futile which is not going to make any constructive change to anyone’s life. However it does not mean not to think at all.
Ofcourse both sides of brain should be utilized properly.
Hence keep thinking.. Its good for health only of it is a god thought.

WHY?????

Why it happens so that the people who are good have to face various hardships??
Why is it so that the people who are most cheerful are the ones who are actually very sad from within??
Why is it so when you do good to some people they don’t return the good, rather act in most selfish way??
Why is it so that the people who create basic necessities of the human life are themselves deprived of these basic necessities??
Why is it so that even after fighting very hard one does not get the desired success??
Why is it so that the person whom you love the most will go away from you just in a blink??
Why is it so that sometimes the solution of the problem is a big problem in itself??
Why is it so that all the problems comes on you all of a sudden??

Reason, Season and Life Time…

This is one of the very famous mails and I am sure you might have come across this mail- that people come in your life either for a reason, a season or life time.
If I look back at my own life I find that there have been instances when people came in my life for a reason and for a season. There have been instances when I wished some miracle to happen and some stranger came in my life – for a reason.
People come in your life for a season also was felt by me while I was studying in Nirma. There have been instances when I can say that some people came in my life for a season. After passage of that season whether they are more in my life or not is immaterial, but ya they were surely to make a season bright and cheerful.
Who comes in your life for life time is pretty difficult to find and hard to retain. In our life we make numerous friends right from cradle to grave and we ourselves with whom we are going to remain in contact for how long. Physical distance creates distance in emotional bondage also.
However there is one person who will always be there with you for life time. And that person is no more that you, yourself. A person is the best friend of himself/herself. So make yourself as yours best friend at the same time remembering those people and their contributions who came in your life either for a reason or a season.

Mystery called Friendship!!!

Friendship.. a Word which everyone of us has heard of. We all have many Friends in our life. At every phase of life we make friends.When we take birth and learn to walk and talk then we have friends of our age in our neighbor. In most cases our siblings are our friends. Then we go to school and there we make many friends. We count and compare with our other friends as to who has maximum number of friends. We feel happy.Slowly as we grow we further make friends, some of our old friends are left behind and some remain with us. This process continues as we continue our journey and by the time where I am i.e. doing about to finish my PG course, end my classroom study life I have many friends right from childhood. But now a question comes to my mind as to Who are FRIENDS???? What is FREINDSHIP????Nice question but with not just one reply. The answer is very subjective. For some people it is a great bond that can never be broken, for them friends are everything. For some as people say it is like a chewing gum, chew it and throw it (I don’t at all like this definition, but sometimes it is a fact).No doubt friendship has many definitions which changes with our relation we share with various people around us. With some we are in close contact, with some we are in a formal contact that is alive till the time we are together at the work place. But this is life…..At times we consider someone as a very good friend, but the other person does not and this might be hurting also. Here I would like to say that friendship is a matter of feelings and this feeling should be absolutely unconditional. “Fate decides our Relatives and we Decide our Friends”. Relations may be conditional but friendship; it should be unconditional and like a free bird with no restrictions. Hence in end I would like to say that try to have atleast one friend who is there with you to guide you, to help you, to give you a shoulder when you want to cry and bring a smile on your face, to be in times of joy and…. And…..Simply be there for you!!!!!

Deep thoughts....

Hii,

Well this blog was written by me last year when i was pursuing my summer internship.

I am just about to finish my summers training, not at RBI, but at TCS, and would like to share some of my experience of these two crucial months.Well what the summers are meant for????According to me they are meant for two things:Adding to your technical (I mean subject knowledge giving it a practical touch)Providing deep and reach insights from so called “Glamorous Corporate World”.As far as technical knowledge is concerned it depends on the project, the company you get. It is possible that you might not get a company of your choice or the project you get may not be of your interest. Hence as far as addition to all ready existing technical knowledge is concerned it might not be great.If I talk about myself, the company I got is no doubt one of the dream companies of many people. But as far as the addition of technical knowledge is concerned, I did not get into the same domain I wanted. (I wanted to go for a finance profile, but it being an IT company…..). However as far as addition to behavioral aspect is concerned it definitely provided me with great insights. I came to know about his glamorous corporate world, how “professional” people are here and how even your friends get professional by getting here. Some thing that I have learn in these two months is that life is too tough and no body is yours. It’s your life and you have to fight it too hard. In this corporate life everyone is there to bite their own share and everyone wants this biggest pie. To get this they are ready to go anyway. Further, I have learn that what people say and what they do are entirely two different things. (I know “Saying” and “Doing” are two different things). I at times used to believe that in this world there are people are of integrity, but after this two months……. ?????Sometimes I feel that in this world there is no space for people who are sober, calm and introvert. It is a world of people who are diplomatic, cunning, and selfish and on the top of boot licker. And one day perhaps everybody becomes a boot licker. Some of the minor issues that I have faced in this two months were related to general life like living and commuting problems, though at times they used to take a gigantic picture, But a few things that needs to be ponder upon areIs the world full of BOOTLICKERS???What does a person get by deceiving others???Who gives right to anyone to hurt others???And finally whatever we do as a part of corporate life (may be the work we do not like but we continue to do it, or anything else) why we do it???? Just for sake of some money and actually let our real person dies a ghost death.Is it right to compromise with your definition of life???These are some of the unanswered questions.Hope to find answers from you all.

Start of the blog....

Finally after thinking a lot I am starting my own blog.
What made me start the blog- I have got the habit of penning down my thoughts…. whether good or bad, but I never wanted to start my own blog. The main reason for this is that I want to be regular if I start the blog but I know it would be difficult.
Previously I posted two blogs on my friend’s blog when we were in the same college. But I know, this is not possible anymore as we have got very far from each other. Further, after getting into job, at times it is very difficult to maintain your creative spirit on. Hence I started penning down my feelings too frequent. When one of my friends made his own blog after reading it I thought let me also make the blog and try to be regular.
Ofcourse I will not be regular in the posting as no net connection at home with blog being blocked in office, I will definitely write something daily/
This will also improve my writing skills.